On audience and connections
Long, rambling post ahead, fueled by summer vacation, campfires, and mosquito repellant…
I've been struggling with the sense of audience and connectedness through online tools for years now. This is one of the reasons I've had a tendency to delete accounts on various social networks, as I occasionally become uncomfortable with the deals involved in using them, and the artificially inflated sense of connection that they foster.
I follow 438 people on twitter right now, and over 1000 people follow me. Or, "follow," as the online social media connection is fundamentally superficial and tenuous. I'm probably only really connected to a dozen or two of those people in any meaningful way, with relationships that I value. Some of those connections have developed into deep friendships lasting for over a decade now.
So, what are the other 1000 or so people, to me? I don't know. Are they flies, sitting vicariously on a wall, listening to snippets of conversations between friends? Are they simply noise? Or is there something else? Some form of quasi-anonymous observer relationship? An audience that occasionally interacts?











